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Well, it's the end of 2012 and the beginning of 2013. Again, I want to thank my friends and acquaintances and fans for all of the great attention I've garnered this past year.

I still cannot believe I've gotten more than 100,000 views ... I originally just started writing and drawing to satisfy my warped little needs and express a side of myself that sometimes is just busting to get out.

I hope your 2012 was kind to you and that 2013 is amazing. Best wishes to all and to all a good night! :heart:

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*Daphnesecretgarden
Sometimes known as David
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I was raised by my stepmother throughout most of elementary school and junior high school. She wasn’t a bad person, but like most of us, she had her problems. The most glaring of which, I am sad to say, was a serious jealousy of the father/son relationship I had with my father.

I was a typical boy, I suppose . . . I enjoyed fishing and racing my bike and I dreamed of being a soldier or an astronaut. My stepmother’s way of handling this situation was to bring me into her world, make boyish things distasteful to me and instead make me do 'special' things with her, things that no boy would do with his father’s knowledge, much less his approval.

In short, whenever my father was out of town I spent a great deal of my time learning the mysteries of lipstick, nylons and heels, not to mention household chores, dolls and books about girls. It was rough giving up my GI Joe for Barbie and 'Spider-Man' for Nancy Drew. I wasn’t too crazy about any of that at first, but it made my stepmother happy and kept peace in our home. And so, I just shrugged my shoulders, sighed … and learned to enjoy my predicament.

Anyway, whenever my dad was away, I spent many a Saturday and Sunday wearing girlish clothes, playing the role of 'Daphne', my stepmother’s favorite daughter. Instead of shooting my pellet gun and reading comic books, I would sit with her and watch romantic musicals or help with her knitting or sewing or some other sissy such thing. Sometimes she would 'let' me play on my own, which meant I had to pretend to enjoy playing with my Barbie and carrying a purse around the house.

That was what I had to face whenever my father left me in the hands of my mischievous and conniving stepmother.

Talk about feeling helpless. :please::tears::please:

As much as I hated some of the things I had to do back then, I now treasure the legacy I was given. I have to say that if given the choice ... I wouldn’t change a thing.

Click here [link] to read my most popular story, Lipstick Discipline.
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:icontiffany-j-bonhaven:
Mood: Sadness *Tiffany-J-BonHaven May 4, 2013  Student Artist
So no more lipstick discipline?
It's been years since the last update.
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:icondaphnesecretgarden:
Mmmmm ... don't write me off completely just yet. I still want to finish that story, but I've not found the right way just yet ... nor the art. :please:

I do appreciate you visiting my garden and writing to me. Patience, dear ... I've not given up just yet. :hug:
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:iconkittyboy2222:
Meow, Oh of course! I remember seeing your art years ago on betty's story site.
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:icondaphnesecretgarden:
Yay! It's good to hear from old friends and fans! :heart:
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:iconrosie207:
:shocked: :sheepish: :worry: I really didn't mean for you get any negative comments by posting that link. I am glad you have deleted it.!!!!
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:icondaphnesecretgarden:
Oh, you're fine, no worries. I just like to keep that one separate. People think they know me or that I am things I am not. Plus I put stuff there that I'd never put here. ;)

Thanks for being so understanding. :heart:
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:iconvashsdonuts:
your work is magnificent. you tell a beautiful story
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:icondaphnesecretgarden:
Awwww ... that's sooooo sweet! :kiss: Seriously, I really do appreciate your kind words. :hug:

I'm so glad you enjoy my site ... and my story. I'd love to hear more of what you think. :please: LOL!!!

You're a gorgeous boy, by the way! :love: I adore your look and am soooo jealous! ;P
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~Itachis-killer Mar 12, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
bare in mind, I'm talking about the link that Rosie207 gave
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